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Then he said (something like), "What if you start working on building up yourself, making yourself whole, while I'm still here in the same capacity? What if we keep seeing each other the same amount of time while you do this?"

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This is really, really nice. He is letting you know that it is okay to step into that gray area of healing (a very scary area) and he will be there. That it doesn't have to be excrutiating or amazing... it can just be. It's okay to move away from the black or the white, just a little bit to begin to repair yourself-- he will be there, he's assuring you of that. It's pretty scary, I know.