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Default Mar 30, 2021 at 12:40 AM
 
Hi @jesyka

Not introducing oneself is a red flag, to me: the initial greeting should be established properly. And then being seemingly indifferent to you probably being in pain, is another red flag. If it was me in that situation, I'd feel my trust in this person eroding away very quickly. Because you should come first, he should make you feel comfortable in my opinion.

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