This party planning is ****. My daughters friends mother who has agreed to have it her place has just said any time is fine. I am not a party person, i am very much a daytime person and come 9 pm i am looking to go to bed and i want parties to end as soon as they begin if it were up to me i would say 11am to 1 pm but i know all the parties my daughter has gone to have been late nighters. Arrgghh!