candy you have done something not many women would even entertain the thought of....and you did it for your child! That to me is the most selfless act ever.
To me Mother's Day is for women who have children and those who have been selfless enough to give the best to their children! This includes the many women who have made the choice for their children's safety to give them up....and I cannot express how much strength it shows for you and others in your position.