If I were to choose a new name for PC....it would be..

" free at last "....

it is my "freewill"... that has led me to be "free at last"..

and I think.. I am still in a bit of a "shockie" place..

I put limits.. and boundaries... finally on a very old friendship.. and for the first time.. in my life.. my 52 years..

I am free from... being abused.. and mis-treated..

so this post has a heart icon... very unusal... for me.. and for this forum..

this is very, very important to me.. and I wanted to share it with you all....

sooooooooo..... I am finally..... free at last...