Thank you for trying to reassure me. We are a very close old-fashioned Italian family. I have tried to have a civil conversation with her but for some reason I seem to be getting more and more on her **** list no matter what I say. She does not want to talk anymore. This is her goal.. to alienate my son from us because she does not want to share him. and I want to add that they chose to get married a few years ago and they did not tell us or share this secret with anybody. Do you know how hurtful that is? It was something we always wanted for them and they went and did it behind our back’s.We have given them so much including the roof over their heads. How have we not accepted her?? It has tore our family apart.