We are not at all controlling. But we would feel more honored if we got a phone call when my husband was in the hospital.. how are you feeling? Nothing. or celebrating someone’s birthday… Just send a card! A cousin entire family got COVID,, See how they are doing?But to disregard the family that you’ve had over 30 years and have somebody else control you is mine baffling. And for her to bring up that our entire family has not reached out to her over Asian hate crimes makes her feel hated? Come on.