Sometimes I wonder if women 100 years ago recognized the difference between "love" and "being in love". The times in my marriage that my husband and I have been in love, been best friends (as brief as they were), were some of the happiest of my life. I think it's those times that make me so unwilling to settle for anything less. There are times when I think "true love only happens in the movies", but there are times when I know in my heart that not only does it exist, it's probably out there waiting somewhere for me.

My husband insists that we are soulmates, in spite of the emotional roller coaster he's put me on, the trust he's broken, that I've told him it's over. He insists that I was put on this earth to be with him, too bad I don't feel the same about him...or I don't anymore.

We deserve "feature film" love ladies, we really do. If you're in a relationship with someone who is willing to work toward that with you, then I say give it a try. Apparently couple counselling works wonders at rekindling, or even creating a new flame.

I wish you all happiness, lives full of passion and hearts full of love.