I hate it that I still sometimes hear "I think you are stupid" instead of the actual words the other person has just said. How do I stop doing that, L? It doesn't happen with everyone I talk to, and it doesn't happen all the time, but dammit, I hate it when it does because I feel so defective. It happened again yesterday and I'm still playing it over in my head this morning. I know you've seen it happen with you as well except it's not "You are stupid" that I hear instead of your words, but "You are wrong."