Razzle, I know exactly what you are talking about. My h and I have been together 14 years, 11 married with one son who is 12. There has not been any affection in so many years I have given up. We love each other,but don't think we are in love, you know?

Anyway, I'm exactly where you are right now, thinking about moving out and such. And I understand the NEED to know that someone really loves you. I hope things work out for both of us. Please take care of yourself.

Mary Alice