So Sorry that your situation is being so difficult! Do your best to stay Safe and see if you can buy any alarms or systems to warn you whether or not someone is entering in this house perhaps. i Hope and Pray that you will all be able to get Help from the courts and that none will be hurt. Please do stay Safe and don't hesitate to contact the police again if necessary. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Noninde, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!