Razzle, I pm'd you.
I married in '76. Even the honeymoon was a disaster. But we worked together at the time, and riding to work, I would hear Paul Simon singing on the radio:
"Just hop on the bus, Gus,
No need to discuss much.
Just drop off the keys, Lee,
and get yourself free..." etc.
He had no concept of intimacy or romance. I stayed for 20 years.
Patty