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Originally Posted by seesaw
Leomama, you have made such great strides these past few years, and I remember your ex-fiancee, and forgive my bluntness, he was not good for you. You are a bright, still young woman. If you are unhappy with the man you've been with, wouldn't it be better to be single and look for someone who doesn't have all those deal breakers than go back to a guy who hurt you so many times? There is no evidence that he is going to behave any differently. He has shown you what kind of partner he is. So just be prepared, if you go back with him, to deal with the same hurts and injuries.
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Thanks seesaw, the man I’ve been with has not hurt me the way my ex fiancé has, he has a mother instead of a wife as a third party in the relation , both men smoke tobacco although my ex fiancé lied about being a smoker, and the new man drinks daily and not in moderation . My ex fiancé never drank in front of me but his now ex wife insinuated he was a bar goer or a drinker.
I can see that my ex fiancé still thinks he divorced and moved because of me. It’s like no you couldn’t even propose to me until you were divorced and stably housed locally. He was like I signed my divorce papers because of you. Um.
I think that’s what I need to accept, that despite all my ex fiancés gifts and the powerful impact his proposal had on me, it wasn’t reality based. My ex fiancé got angry at me when I pointed that out .
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