A counselor I emailed about couples counseling services recommended an abusive men's therapy agency that is local to us. I am going to insist that my husband seek's help there, while I look for a couples counselor. I am in charge of finding a therapist because I want to be.... not because he asked me to be. I want to find the right counselor, but in the meantime, this will tell me if he is serious or not about seeking help. If he refuses or resists, it will be very telling.