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Old Apr 05, 2021, 02:56 PM
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Originally Posted by leomama View Post
I’m not sure if he’s a moderate or heavy drinker. He has 3 double beers that he spreads out over 6 hours . The other problem is he lives in his mother’s house. That’s an even bigger problem for me. Current guy is also a smoker and a stoner although he doesn’t consume much weed as alcohol .
Ex says he wants to get together in 2 weeks , or won’t be able to get together for another 2 weeks due to physical health problems.

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It’s still a lot of alcohol. Plus he is a stoner. Yikes. Not marriage or cohabitation material (if that’s what you consider). Living with mom is the whole another issue(can’t afford his own place?).

Your ex wanting to meet in two weeks I am not sure about. Does he want to meet because there’s something important he wants to share or is it because you suggested to meet and want to propose to rekindle your romance? I’d stir away from both men. They sound like they’d make your life more stressful and harder, not more enjoyable and less stressful. Who needs that
Thanks for this!
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