I told mom it was time to drive only very short distances and that I was talking to my brother and sister because I needed some help with her care. My sister stopped by and reiterated that it was time to drive short distances only. I can’t tell if mom feels angry, sad, betrayed, disappointed or offended but she’s treating me with distant, icy politeness. It’s uncomfortable being around her. She’s refusing my help when she clearly needs it. She confuses her day and night medicine and takes them incorrectly for starters. I suggested a pill pack for her medications and she said maybe in a year or two. I’m clueless as to how to proceed with the iciness. It’s hard to force help on someone when they won’t take it. I guess I’ll give it time...I don’t know what else to do.

My NP appointment went well and I’ve had a good day sitting in the sun for several hours with a good book.