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Default Apr 07, 2021 at 03:29 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Mystical_Being View Post
I had a therapist cry in a session because of something I said about her but I was not trying to hurt her, I even tried to word things as mindfully as possible. I felt like I had to take care of her and comfort her so the whole session turned into that. I am glad you didn't feel that way.
Conversely, I wish I felt this way. When she cries, my instinct is to attack. It doesn't feel particularly liberating, and certainly not kind, to disregard her feelings. I know therapy is not about the therapist's feelings, but my treatment of her as an emotional punch bag is pretty vile. How did your therapist respond when you took care of her?
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