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rechu it's not surprising you and your husband both became frustrated with disagreement about how you should proceed with the vaccine. You both essentially want the same thing - you to be as safe as is possible, but have different ideas about how best to achieve that.
Neither of you are wrong and both of you have valid reasoning. It's a tough call. Add to that you're both so worn out with everything - hand cream cordoned off, really!
It's a tough call. Sending hugs to you.