Wow Suzy! the more we write th more i get the idea you've really got a good handle on dealing with this stuff - both out of experience and brains. so glad U are willing to share some of what you've learned with us............
i hear U on the medication thing - we also have to be "blunted" in order to function and not be totally climbing the walls, hysterical, overly angry, etc ,,,necessary to maintain any kind of a premace of 'normal' in this messed up world....................
never thinked of T as my employee but it do make sense.........
if you don't mind me asking and U answering i are really interested in what types of questions you asked new T???? thinking what a good idea that is and how much it would help.............thanks, beadlady29