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Apr 09, 2021, 09:20 AM
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Hi @WindsThatBlow I am sorry that relationship ended in divorce. Despite what your ex says, it was not your fault. In court they often do not accept the testimony of a criminal. He was no saint. Dating another woman while you were married.
I am sorry it hurts so much. You went into this with your all and they shut the door. I am not sure what your ex was thinking but to blame you for the breakup of your marriage when he was cheating is absurd and totally unfair. Some might say he was emotionally abusive. I cannot say. You might find these articles of interest:
Gaslighting: Did your ex try to make you go mad? - Divorce Club
5 Ways to Recover From Being Cheated, Lied to, or Manipulated | Inc.com
Hope you get the support you need to come back from this disappointment
Building Confidence and Self-Esteem | Psychology Today
All the best to you. @CANDC
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