So Sorry about what happened! Must have been really painful! i agree with the wise and wonderful CANDC about being So Sorry for what happened and the fact that he was wrong for cheating on you. i don't know the details of what happened between you two but i still feel like saying that cheating is wrong and that it definitely can make things hard in relationships. Please do not blame yourself that much for it. i Hope things will improve for everyone. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @WindsThatBlow, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!