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Originally Posted by seesaw
Maybe he just needs more communication? Maybe he feels like he's not getting communication from you so he sort of bears down. You could try proactively communicating so he maybe learns some trust and backs off.
I'm not suggesting you are wrong or doing anything wrong. Just suggesting a way to change the relationship.  |
If it is getting long in the tooth I usually will pipe up and say something it is just that 20 minutes to me seems like something I shouldn't have to say, "I am checking" he either doesn't understand the realties of checking in with other people the stay at home era or he does and is just impatient. I mean if something had gotten fowled up because I didn't check my e-mails ok but never has anything gotten fowled up and it is 7 years in.
Here also I don't take issue with him checking, I take issue with the rude and disrespectful way he sent an e-mail with all question marks like a spiteful little brat.
You just don't send out things like that dripping with attitude.
You say -- did you hear from "X" yet? - "Did you hear anything?"