Looking for a way to better deal with Dumpster Fire I am in. In the past 30 days I have been kicked out of home on a moments notice, lived in a hotel for 30 days, have divorce papers filed on me and have been told by my wife that she wants a divorce, house sold and business we share together sold. We have been together 20 years married for 17. I feel like I have been hit by sledgehammer and set on fire.