Yeah? And the ONLY thing I ever did wrong was to abuse alcohol during the last 1.5 months of our marriage. And even then, I wasn't starting fights with him OR causing problems! I was nothing but loving and supportive of him throughout our entire marriage. So, no, I am not going to view it the way you are.

We are in therapy to address HIS abuse towards ME for 2.5 years. Not to address ME. I have my own individual therapist for that.

These therapy sessions are all about HIS abuse.