I can only live my life the way I see fit. I can only follow and do what I think is right and best. I appreciate all the support and insights - however, I am only pursuing couples therapy for the reasons I outlined.

Sure, relationships are a two-way street, but as I've already stated, I have been NOTHING but LOVING, SUPPORTIVE and GIVING in this relationship. The spotlight is on HIM and HIM ONLY. HE is the one who has F'ed up this relationship- NOT ME.

Otherwise, I will DROP therapy and I will LEAVE my marriage IF this becomes about ME in ANY way.

I don't care to discuss this any further.