Thanks Open Eyes

Sorry, didn't explain clearly. She's eating breakfast cereal for evening meal. Has toast or cereal for breakfast. A strange mix for lunch; plain biscuits with cold meat, raisins or chopped apple. She's diabetic so should eat properly. Poor diet could be affecting her mental functions.

When we do her shopping list, often asks for things like chops or chicken portions to cook herself. Probably won't entertain having someone come in to prepare meals as very suspicious of people she doesn't know well.

I realise she will never change. There are so many issues; we're dealing with a complicated person. Perhaps she should have sought therapy when younger but it wasn't done in those days. People were thought to be mad.