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Apr 12, 2021, 12:27 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,081
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Originally Posted by rdgrad15
Yeah makes sense. In that particular scenario, I can see where you’re coming from.
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I definitely try to approach them diplomatically YET FIRM while they are pushing my limit so they have warning all along. I did have to learn how to be diplomatic & not just blow up at people. It was a wake up call as to just how far my ex had pushed me that my reactions to everyone at that point were to blow up first. It was a good lesson to learn & as I calmed down it was much easier to approach everyone in a much calmer way. I was like that glass that was filled to the top & one more drop from anyone, I would dump. Now my stress glass is almost empty & I am back to responding much more calmly.
I used my over reactions as learning experiences to change rather than feeling guilty about them
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