My SO has always had acne, but since this winter, it got much worse. I really want him to see a dermatologist and have brought it up very carefully several times, but he sort of just shrugs it off. I got the number for him today and he again stalled. I think maybe because he's always had bad skin, he sort of forced himself to get used to it and refuses to make any particular effort. That was fine until recently, but now in the past year, I'm seeing a lot of damage to his skin and think he needs to see a professional. I think he would be happier if he could improve his complexion somewhat, and I'm also a little concerned about him doing job interviews next year and being judged over his skin. He's never been to a dermatologist, so this isn't me being insensitive with someone who's already tried everything. I was honestly alarmed this winter at how bad his skin got, but because of the pandemic, I didn't say anything and just tried to keep the apartment more humid and buy more fruit and fish oil. But now we're vaccinated and I'm getting really frustrated, angry and resentful that he won't make the appointment or be clear why he doesn't want to go. Honestly--I think maybe he's simply lazy and just doesn't feel like it. But this is not just a minor cosmetic issue anymore. I don't want to come out and say anything negative about his appearance and make him feel bad, but this a real issue that needs to be addressed. He's good looking and takes care of his body and he's even doing braces to straighten his teeth right now--I don't understand why he won't just make the appointment.

I had bad acne when I was younger (and also not so young) so I get the pain.