It doesn’t sound excessive but I will tell you I can feel your pain about wanting to overspend. I think the only thing that I would hold off on if it were me would be the dress. If it means a lot to you though I mean it’s really not that expensive. The only reason I say that is I was in a wedding or supposed to be in a wedding for my brother and it got postponed due to the pandemic it’s been over a year now. Technically I don’t even know if I will fit in the dress by the time it comes around so I decided to leave it be for now. I will tell you this though, if I feel as though my spending is becoming excessive I stop buying things just like you are until I can sort out what’s priority and what’s not. I actually had a full conversation with my therapist a couple weeks ago about it. We were going through accepting and rejecting things. I listed off everything I want which by the way was not essentials like what you’re going through right now. To give you an example new phone rejected, new laptop rejected, Nintendo switch rejected, new clothing wardrobe accepted ( under certain conditions, New car rejected, Apple TV rejected, computer to learn coding on ( discussions to be continued), new bedspread rejected, instapot rejected, vitamix rejected, new dish set ( gorgeous polish pottery over $1000 rejected. I seriously hated my therapist after that session. Just saying.