So Sorry things are hard. Why can't you tell him about your concerns? i think talking to him may prove Hopefully Beneficial. Is there any personal reason for that? Talk to him if possible. In any case definitely wait to see what his plans are. i Hope things will go well and that your relationship with your own mother will improve. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Scarlet Alexis, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!