After having a T who didn't stick to his ethical boundries, with my new T, I set up the boundaries at the beginning. I said NO disclosure, I even told him if he is attracted to me, I will fire him. lol I have loosened up now that I know I can trust him not to hurt me like the last one. But I learned my lesson with my first T, even though it felt great to be special, it only hurt more in the end, I appreciate the boundaries now.