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That "change" thing was an issue in my marriage too. The fascinating thing at the end, I stated that he NEVER made the changes that would be necessary to make the marriage work. I chuckled at his comment when he said "I did change but it happens slowly". My reply was that I didn't see any change at all. Turns out sometimes what they perceive they have changed to meet our requirements is ONLY IN THEIR MIND but not in reality. My trust issues were totally financial issues. From all the legal issues I am still having, it is obvious that over the last 14 years & divorce, he NEVER changed.
Sometimes you need to use your intuition about a relationship & not your emotions if you ever truly want to be happy & not living from one crisis to another. That is called "using your WiseMind"
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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