So Sorry that your friend is going through this. i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters in that shey may be vulnerable at the moment. Perhaps try a kinder approach? Not saying that you've been rude to her but perhaps understand if she's doing this to fill a void or something similar to that. i don't want to jump to conclusions so i am Sorry. i Hope you'll be able to convince her to not send any money or see those people she doesn't even know. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @rdgrad15, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!