So the point that you married him, thus feeling invested in him/ committed to him, is a factor weighing in your decision for you. He is only a husband of a short while, and during that time, it was a struggle. There are no kids or assets.

You really don’t have to make any decision at all. Right now, you live apart. You can see each other if you want to. There really isn’t any reason for you to get a divorce as long as neither are hurting the other financially or otherwise. Maybe as this is now is best for you right now. He seems fine with it the way it is and seeing a t together. You’ve got this in a good place for yourself, Hope.