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Originally Posted by wheeler
Thanks for everyone’s feedback and hugs.
We met last night, virtually, and other than telling me the city she moved to, she wouldn’t tell me why. She said it was personal and not her story to tell . I was crushed. She said it shouldn’t matter to me. Things happen in her life all the time that I know nothing about.
Very sad and hurt. I don’t know if I’ll be
Able to continue to work with her. And I know
I wouldn’t start this process over again with someone else.
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My experience with that phrase - “it’s not my story to tell” - is that it is used out of respect for the person it pertains to. In other words her reason for moving may be because of something going on privately with a loved one, and she does not feel that telling their private issues to other people is respectful of her loved one’s privacy.