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Old Apr 17, 2021, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
You used him? Wow. That’s rich. He shouldn’t be the one bringing up “using” another person.

He seems to be always physically “sick” whenever something isn’t to his liking. He knows how to guilt you. Then he was supposedly overdosing and now he is sick on his stomach. He seems to be really good at manipulating. When you relied on him for support it’s not like you make promises and lied. You were working on things. It’s not working. How is that using?

Love or not, love is not enough. And after less than two years of marriage this is way too much drama. It doesn’t even matter. If love was only determining factor, no one would get divorced. Most people marry because they are in love.
I know, right?!?!

I can’t say anything to him without him attacking me or getting “sick”. He’s proven again to me today that he has not changed and will not change. He’s abusive. Period.

I’m SO glad to end this most toxic relationship! Far too much drama. And he’s parasitic! I feel like he’s glued himself back onto me like a parasite and now I have to peel him off with both hands!
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