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Old Apr 17, 2021, 12:20 PM
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Originally Posted by eskielover View Post


TISHA, it is called "financial security". HH's earning capability is much higher than his. When you want to live in a lifestyle you can't afford on your own, trying to keep it looks very appealing & definitely a gain.
Sooooo true!!!!

For the last six weeks he’s overwhelmed me with dripping declarations of love. It didn’t ring true for me at all, the way he poured it on so thick and heavy. It clicked yet again within me at that point. He’s using ME. I provided financial security and comforts for him. Now he’s sponging off his roommate for money. And started to sponge off me for money too again recently. He simply wants his comfortable life again, with me taking care of him. It’s not love.. it’s abuse.
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