My last boyfriend was a member of all the sites I belonged to....but when we were together it didn't bother me. But when we broke up and I was in the process of finding my own place, I found he was stalking me online...looking at every site I had been to, etc. When I joined a site he was banned from, he went as far as creating a false identity and joining just so he could see what I was writing.

Even after I came back to PA, he was still stalking me online...checking out every little thing I wrote on blogs, etc. I still wonder whether he's still stalking me or trying to stalk me...but right now I'm trying not to focus so much on it and every once in awhile I'll post something that would only irritate him and see what kind of activity I get....I know...a little mean streak lol.

Being stalked is a horrifying experience...I wouldn't wish it on anyone and am sorry for those of us who it has happened to.