So Sorry for what you've been going through! i agree with the wise and wonderful Yaowen about this situation being understandable i think. Teling them that those jokes bothered you may have been necessary but i think being kinder may have been more beneficial. Of course i don't know what is your relationship with these friends you're referring to but if no explicit comments from them were made perhaps it would have been worth it to give them the benefit of the doubt at least. i think they should have replied with at least an Apology though. Perhaps they were too shocked/embarassed but i think an Apology should have been the bare minimum. Not sure what to suggest. Have they been kinder towards you since then, perhaps? Apart from their fat jokes, did their behavior change in any significant way? Please do not give up. Hugs. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @jesyka, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!