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Old Apr 18, 2021, 05:08 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
It’s understandable you are upset. But longer you keep letting him back in, harder it’s going to be. You already went through all this.

Of course you did the right thing. Of course he is blaming you because he knows how to manipulate you and he knows you’ll be upset and question your ability to make decisions. Then you’ll feel weak and he’ll either weasel back in or at least hit you for money. You don’t even live together and he still asks for money. I mean comn who does that.

You might be alone but at least you don’t have to question who he texts flirtatiously at night after love bombing you. At least no one lies to you.
You're right. Thanks @divine1966! I really needed to hear this and be reminded. He's been mr nice guy lately, so I've practically forgotten the bad side, though my gut says to not trust him ever again.
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