Hi Seetha,

My situation sounds almost identical to yours. I married a woman 4 years ago I was barely physically attracted to but we clicked on every level. Over time I fell in love with her but sex and touching just wasn't something I waa into with her. Regardless, I learned that this needed to be a part of our relationship. So, we started to grow in that area of our life. Over time we started to grow apart. She is attached to her family to a point to where it is toxic and nothing I say matters if it doesn't involve them. We agreed to seperate a week ago but it hads been pretty scary for me. I live alone because I gave up most of my family relationships to come and live with her. I have one good friend that lives hours away. So now I'm lonely trying to understand what happened. I hope it gets better for you but I am right there with you.