Thread: I don't know what to do with my marriage
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Old Apr 18, 2021, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted by RollercoasterLover View Post
If I may... he didn't love you for what you could provide... he loved what you provided. In my experience, that's an important distinction.
What I meant was he doesn't love me for ME - he loves what I can give to him: financial security, a better lifestyle, someone who cleans up after him and keeps the house neat and orderly, and someone who caters to his every need.

Perhaps you're saying the same thing?
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