@BethRags: Wow, i'm really sorry you feel that way, like you're going to be attacked or something tragic will happen. It must make it very hard to relax. I got a new gadget for security on my door, new on the market. It's this spring-loaded bar lock that makes it impossible to open the door even if you have a key. I felt a weight off my shoulders when i got it installed. Maybe it would help? I just got it at a big-box home improvement store.