I have PTSD from molestation in my youth. I can say it's been a lifelong struggle. Once I decided to not be a victim and became a survivor by standing up for myself, then we were on equal playing ground. Sure. I still get heart palpitations when I feel like I'm being abused again. I instantly recognize this and quell it flat. I used to get so enraged when I felt violated. I agree with what's written above. People do not understand or even care. Once I decided to care about myself and to care less about what other people talked about, things began to change. I could control my thoughts, words, actions and deeds taking responsibility for myself, in all ways. I don't take responsibility for others anymore.