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Old Apr 18, 2021, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted by RockyRoad007 View Post
Will you move into a one bedroom unit this year once your current lease expires this June or July?

That will certainly let him know it's over. You could even text him and ask him to keep an eye out for a nice cosy, intimate one bedroom unit for you. A unit that's friendly for one.

Let him know you would appreciate help with packing and moving. He'll know he's solidly in the friend zone by that point.
Why does he need to keep an eye on the place for her? Even if she wants to move to a smaller place, she could look for a place all on her own.

I don’t think it’s wise to ask soon to be ex or ex by then (they already had divorce process started) looking for apartments and helping her pack and move. In addition telling him that she needs his help with basic tasks is giving him yet another excuse to weasel himself back into her life.

“She needs my help yet again. She can’t manage. Let me see how I can use it for my advantage”. No thanks
Thanks for this!
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