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Apr 18, 2021, 08:44 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,078
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I've gotten to the point where hearing most people say it or reading it or whatever and all I need is a deep breath and I'm fine.
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One T I had after I left my bad marriage told me I had experienced some level of trauma dealing with my H for 33 years in that bad marriage. Lol....the quote above has one of the one trigger word that really sent me into anger in my marriage "WHATEVER" He would always say that whenever I confronted him. I actually saw red a few times when that happened. By the time I left, if I would have had a baseball bat, I would have sent him sailing every time I heard that word. It is used so many places with different meanings than he used it for but for several years, that word would ring in my ears every time I heard it. Doesn't bother me 14 years later. Not even sure when it stopped bothering me. I understand but it was definitely something I had to bring under my control
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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