I am so effing sorry to read this.

I may not be of much comfort as I'm going thru my own stuff and I feel a lot of anger, a lot of the time.

Humans can be so selfish. She was clearly looking out for herself, and whatever happened to you, meh sorry. Unless you were some abusive a-hole, you don't deserve this. Most humans deserve honesty almost all of the time. Being met with lies with something so big and important. That's terrible.

I'm sorry.