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Apr 19, 2021, 02:15 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,079
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Originally Posted by RollercoasterLover
I live in the house we bought after getting married. 75% of my current mental health issues are likely caused by being in covid 19 isolation in this house. The only room I haven't remodeled yet is the kitchen. Hmmm...
Thanks for letting me just say the things that come to my mind.
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It's good to say what comes to mind. My T said it solidifies our thoughts & brings them to light.
Yes, the last 13 years I lived with my husband before leaving him 14 years ago caused me major depression. Didn't realize it at the time & none of the mental health professionals ever got it either. It went away when I moved away from him though I needed the good therapy I finally got to process it all.
That is the good thing with owning a farm & a horse. There is no isolation. Less social activities but I have to constantly go to feed stores & get hay & do all the normal daily stuff outside. All of us continue life as we always have & interface like normal.
Wish I could do some remodeling & fencing & a small barn. When I tried to get a home loan on my paid for farm was when I found out my name was still on the home loan after the house was sold. (Illegal). Couldn't get a loan to do the repairs & have to take the new owner to court to force him to get a new loan because he is stupid enough not to do it without court. Fool, it will cost him more in court fees than to just go out & get a new loan. So the battle & my EX's financial irresponsibility that was abusive is still a battle. Will be nice when it is over with & I never have to deal with his stupidity again
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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