He ordered me an A/C unit without asking me if I needed or even wanted one. He just ordered it, taking control yet again.

So he's coming here in person on Tue to pick it up. I have to face him. He is going to ask for more of an explanation for the recent breakup, since it was basically over text (initially).

But I've said it all, short and sweet: I do not trust him, therapy will NOT fix this, and I cannot live in constant doubt, worry or with constant mistrust of him.

I also told him that far too much damage has been done. What I didn't say was that therapy with him helped me to see this more clearly.

I do NOT want to get into a conversation about it when he comes here on Tue, which is what I think he is expecting - that will only allow him to wedge his way in and to argue points with me.

I suppose I'll tell him that I've already said it all? I really don't want to allow any conversation or argument about it.