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Old Apr 19, 2021, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
I agree. It takes an open-minded, self-aware person to be able to look at themselves to see their part in any conflict. So often it is the case where someone wants to completely blame the other guy. (Sometimes it truly is 100% the other guy...) but mostly both parties share the fault for the conflict.
I agree with most of what you said, only stressing on a couple of points.
Everybody have our Ego, not always we are in the right moment to accept another person’s insight and of course, in the end it’s always up to us our last word and decision. But, at least, don’t silent this person. Be a little more polite. It’s not even needed to have a completely open-mind. Only a little of consideration since the other person took his/her time to reply.

In regards to something being sometimes 100% truth when there are different parties involved, I would see it’s something extremely rare. Very few cases.
And when you see the same person complains over and over again about everyone, following the same pattern. It’s a completely waste of time, it’s like going on circles.
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Thanks for this!
Open Eyes, TishaBuv